STOP!

I haven't blogged in a long, long time. I don't know why. It used to be my release. My way out of the real world. Just to sit down & take some time to write down how I felt. Put my thoughts into words. It calmed me. It kept me okay. Now I've resorted to other options, which you all probably know. And why? I don't know. Fuck that though. I'd like to say I'm done with those options. It's ridiculous that I'd ever do that kind of stuff. I apologize for doing it. That's not the point of this blog though. The point of this blog is to address everyone in an issue we can all clearly see.

The drama. The tension. The bullshit.

Let me start off by saying... knock it off. I know I've been a part of some of the drama and issues, but I found it ridiculous every time. Why do we have to cause issues with the people that clearly mean the most to us? You know it's true. I know it's true. To me, my friends are my everything. Without them, I honestly could not and would not survive. I personally believe that without friends, I'd have finished myself off long ago. I don't mean to sound horribly depressing or pathetic, but it's the complete truth. I can't speak for everyone else, but I'm pretty sure most people consider their friends a major part of their life.

Friends. They're important to everyone. Without friends, I don't think many of us would have a big part of ourselves. From observation, it's clear that we all care about & love our friends. So why the FUCK do we continue to do all of this bullshit? If you're legitimately reading this, don't sit there & try to justify it. Don't try to say you never did it.

You. Did. It.

I wish I had an off switch on the drama & arguments of the group. I'd turn them off in a heartbeat. If you really think about it, the summer was good. Now imagine if there were no little, petty arguments. Imagine if there was no drama. Imagine if we could have all just sucked it up, got along and had a good time. It would have been amazing.

I think the worst part was people arguing over fucking Twitter. Come on, guys. Really? If there are any real issues, confront the person in a good, polite way. Don't attack each other. Don't immediately call people out on things, even if you do know for a fact that it's true. Just handle your shit. Handle the situations properly.

I wish desperately that the drama and tension and fights would just end. I'm so over it. I'm over people being smo over stupid things. People fighting in real life. Over Twitter. Over texts. Then bringing it out for everyone to be a part of. And everyone (for some reason) always joins in and tries to be a part of the argument between two people. Why? That just makes things so much worse. Stop. Stop it now.

The summer's almost over. Let's make these last days good. You know you love your friends. I know I love my friends. So why continue these sharades? There's no reason for it. At all. So stop. You never know if one day an argument can get so out of hand that you lose people completely.

If you're a friend, I love you. I'm sorry if I ever caused drama. I'm sorry if I ever argued with you (especially over something ridiculous and miniscule). I'm sorry. Now take the example set forth and do the same. Apologize to the people you love. It's the only thing left to do.